Do you have abandonment issues? Is therapy difficult for you? Would you like to resolve your abandonment issues without therapy?
Here’s how you do it. Step 1: Stay married to someone for 4o years.
I realized last weekend that Gary went an entire day without speaking to me. In the past if he’d slept all day or spent 45 minutes in the bathroom I would have been personally hurt, and I’d have taken it as proof he didn’t love me.
And now, here I was, kissing his head at the end of the day, still secure.
No doubt there’s some other insecurity that will rise up to take its place.