Mom Update: Breakthrough pain meds doubled, and if that doesn’t work the pain patch medicine might be doubled again. A funny thing happened today, and if it hadn’t made me cry solidly for two hours I would tell you about it. Perhaps in a year, just say, “The 1815 Incident,” and I’ll tell you about it.
So, today, during my daily hysteria moment, my brother arrived. I haven’t seen him for ten years. Clearly he’s grown in that time: first he is over twice the size he was (I’m almost twice the size), and second he didn’t cry. He’s a rock. He was distressed he wasn’t crying. I was amazed, and I felt a little stupid since I had warned the hospice staff (while sobbing) that HE was the emotional one and would need a lot of their support.
5 responses to “Dave Arrives”
I’d suspect either he’s in shock and disbelief, or you are channeling all the tears for him. You’re channel-crying, venting the emotion for the family.Maybe you can get a TV show on the SciFi channel.
Sending you strength and support. Thank you for keeping us informed. I check in often, hoping for good news of any kind. I’m glad your brother is there.
It’s very, very rare that my sister cries, although her recent infirmity combined with her husband’s literal and figurative pin-headedness put her over the edge for a few minutes. Still, she gets bothered by her lack of affect, too, which I attribute to the meds. I’m okay with her lack of affect, given the alternative. But I’m betting Dave will show his emotions sooner or later. Reality has a nasty way of imposing itself on the psyche.
continually sending prayers and good vibes your way, as well as the queen mothers. . .hope having your brother there will offer some bit of relief
Sherri – “The Tear Whisperer.”Vaguely – Thanks. I am too.Friend #3 – I know our family only has room for one person to be emotional. Maybe I got dibs.keri – Thanks – it has already.